In the last few weeks, I've been bombarded with stories of breakups and bitter dudes
I will add a personal story to the list.
My friend from work went to another coworker (a girl we are both cool with) to tell her about the breakup. The coworker responded with "I'm sure Jess is really happy that you are single again now you have more time to spend with her"
What thee fuck!$!#%
Why would I be happy about a friend of mine breaking up with the guy she has been with for over a year. This was a guy that she talked about marriage with.
My friend said to my coworker, "Jess is has a full life she goes out more than me."
A week after we broke up I was at my frat brothers' barbecue a week later. People like to tell me that I'm strong but its really pride. I'm going to be sad but I'm not going to do the pity party because I'm single. Well OK I won't like I did the pity party a Saturday or two but a girl is entitled.
What would (even if you were thinking it) make you say such a thing. The only thing I can think of is before she got engaged that is what her life was like.
I saw this next story on Okayplayer. This chick made up this account on Twitter which has only two updates but brings you to this blog.
I ask females that I know all the time what do sites like this help mend a broken heart? Will returning a kidney change the fact that your wife cheated on you? I guess I shouldn't judge but there has to be a better way to deal with a loss other than bitterness and revenge. Or maybe pride is truly one of the seven deadly sins. Maybe my crying on the inside routine is no better than throwing a brick through someones window. (I never did that. A girl I know did. Not his window but his mother's house. They are married now)
What I wonder now is should I call the coworker out for what she said.
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Listening to: U2 - Pride
via FoxyTunes
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